" we should remember our relationship as one of sweet memory in
our entire of life, the memory that make we smile when we refresh back"
The sentence make me realised that to make friendship lasting we should based on realistic situation, transparent, trust, respect, honour and love. Not everyone we can make friends and real friend should have that criteria.
Some friend will lead to do something beyond your mind and thinkings. They may said a superb word to persuade you to do wacky things. Wacky in a way not good to you, your feelings and your psychological emotion. A good friend will thing twice before asking you to do weird things. Actually it is very important to choose a friend. Stay away from friend always make your self esteem lower as usual.
As time goes by and in the year to reach my 40's my thinking about friend is slightly different. I saw people and observed them as my benchmark to be more upgrade in friendship and life. Do not easily trust new friend especially to those who like make a judgement on a simple event that we have been through before. They always judge from the cover. Actually we are is what we think and what we believes. The past make what we are today.
What I want to say here, I have friends to go for 'wayang and karoks' time, she is so sporting and spontaneous, even if I buzz her 1 hour before the cinema start she can turn up. Really love her. We go for 'makan' and drinks caffeine together. She always open to do crazy thing's together. Just forget about your works that always drag you until late morning in the office and take away your stagnant routine as a mother and wife.
For my annually entertainment favourite artist concert I have my sister's and in-laws to accompany me. Does its look save to go for crowded places with your very closed family right?
The activity which most friends that I invited feel regret and doesn't turn up again on the next activity, it hiking! I find that not all people like outdoor activity such as white water rafting, cave tracking and cycling.I have my schoolmate friend which is really energetic for this. She don't even punctured in the middle of the tracking, unlike me, every time has to stop at unrecognised station for drinks and take five breath. Unfortunately recently she is undergo for 'kena buatan orang' so she has to take a rest for any outdoor activity until next year 2013 mid. The 'kena buatan orang' is she is expecting new baby no. 5 and will deliver on this August hehe..
A friend for my yamcha, he is family man, our friend relationship almost six years, he buzz me through my mobile, gently introduce him self and approaching me. He is very soft spoken and good looking like Dato'K. We shared mostly about family matters and works. Since we are in different fields so many things we shared together. We trust each other and respect our patners well.
A politician friend so call, where all the conversation most likely talk about UMNO, PAS, Harakah, Syiah, Sunni, Yahudi vs Isreal etc. Even though I have really no idea about politics and in the real life i hate politics! But the conversation impressed me a lots with the latest issues. The irony is he is at EUA, workings @ Saudi Arabia and spend a lots of time reading Berita Harian, Harakah and his home town is in Jawa Barat, Indonesia. We communicate true Facebook chatting. I get to know him since I was teenage time, when he is working with my late father.Missed him very much.
I love all my friends so much and in my history of life I have no friends that I keep something in my heart. Event if they did something to me, its just a small experience that I gone through. May be Allah have set all to me for my own good and as a lessons. I am totally not regrets. I feel very lucky and being blessed surrounded by very supported family and a good friends.
